My hips pulsed against the pole while I swung round, totally dominating the space. For some reason, self-assured, I began to undo my blouse… — I worked in a bar downtown. On the day my life changed, I got up really late and forgot to eat before starting work. After a couple of drinks that evening, I felt light-headed, dreamy and erotic, which led me to grab the pole in the middle of the dance…